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Spiritual Divorce: Healing the Brokenness Among Believers

By Pastor Usman Raza

The Rise of Division in the Church

The Christian faith calls believers to live in unity, reflecting the love of Christ to the world. Yet, division within the body of Christ has become a widespread issue. These separations, often referred to as “spiritual divorce,” are not limited to doctrinal disputes but extend to personal conflicts, pride, and cultural influences. Spiritual divorce weakens the church’s witness and grieves the heart of God, who desires His followers to be one as He and the Son are one (John 17:20-23).

In this blog, we will explore the causes, consequences, and biblical solutions for healing spiritual divorce among believers. By embracing humility, forgiveness, and a Kingdom mindset, the church can overcome these divisions and foster unity.

1. Understanding Spiritual Divorce

Spiritual divorce is the breaking of unity and fellowship among believers, often characterized by unresolved conflict, estrangement, and division within the church. Unlike physical divorce, which dissolves a marriage, spiritual divorce dissolves relationships within the body of Christ.

Biblical Context

  • Paul and Barnabas: Acts 15:36-41 recounts a disagreement between Paul and Barnabas over John Mark, leading to their separation. While both continued their ministries, this division highlights how even godly leaders can experience conflict.
  • The Corinthian Church: In 1 Corinthians 1:10-13, Paul addresses divisions among believers, urging them to be united in mind and thought.

2. Causes of Spiritual Divorce

Several factors contribute to spiritual divorce, including:

a. Doctrinal Disputes

Disagreements over theology and biblical interpretation often lead to division. While doctrinal clarity is important, it should not come at the expense of love and unity (Ephesians 4:15).

b. Pride and Ego

Pride is a significant barrier to unity. When believers prioritize personal agendas and refuse to humble themselves, conflict arises (Proverbs 16:18, Philippians 2:3-4).

c. Cultural and Political Influences

The infiltration of worldly ideologies into the church can create divisions. Political affiliations and cultural preferences often take precedence over biblical values, causing fractures within the body of Christ.

d. Unforgiveness and Bitterness

Unresolved offenses and a lack of forgiveness breed resentment and division. Jesus emphasized the importance of forgiveness in Matthew 6:14-15, linking it to our relationship with God.

e. Lack of Communication

Misunderstandings and poor communication can escalate conflicts. Open, honest dialogue is essential for maintaining unity and resolving disputes (James 1:19).

3. The Consequences of Spiritual Divorce

Spiritual divorce has far-reaching consequences, both for individuals and the church as a whole:

a. Weakening of the Church’s Witness

Jesus said that the world would know His disciples by their love for one another (John 13:35). Division undermines this testimony and hinders evangelism.

b. Grieving the Holy Spirit

Ephesians 4:30-32 warns against actions that grieve the Holy Spirit, including bitterness, anger, and malice. Division within the church is a direct affront to the Spirit’s work of unity.

c. Personal Spiritual Harm

Believers who harbor unforgiveness and resentment suffer spiritually. These negative emotions hinder prayer, worship, and spiritual growth (Mark 11:25).

d. Missed Opportunities for Ministry

Division distracts from the church’s mission to serve others and spread the gospel. Resources and energy are diverted to internal conflicts rather than Kingdom work.

4. Biblical Solutions for Healing Spiritual Divorce

Healing spiritual divorce requires intentional effort, rooted in biblical principles:

a. Humility and Self-Examination

Philippians 2:3-4 encourages believers to consider others above themselves. Healing begins with humility and a willingness to acknowledge one’s role in the conflict.

  • Practical Step: Spend time in prayer, asking God to reveal any pride or selfishness that may be contributing to the division.

b. Forgiveness and Reconciliation

Forgiveness is a cornerstone of the Christian faith. Colossians 3:13 calls believers to forgive as the Lord forgave them.

  • Practical Step: Reach out to those with whom you have conflict. Seek reconciliation through honest conversation and a heart of forgiveness.

c. Embracing Unity in Diversity

Unity does not mean uniformity. The body of Christ is diverse, with different gifts, perspectives, and cultures (1 Corinthians 12:12-27). Embracing this diversity strengthens the church.

  • Practical Step: Celebrate the unique contributions of others and seek to learn from different perspectives.

d. Focusing on the Kingdom of God

Matthew 6:33 instructs believers to seek first the Kingdom of God. When the focus shifts from personal agendas to God’s purposes, unity follows.

  • Practical Step: Engage in activities that promote Kingdom values, such as service projects and community outreach.

e. Engaging in Spiritual Warfare

Division is a strategy of the enemy. Ephesians 6:10-18 emphasizes the need for spiritual armor to stand against these attacks.

  • Practical Step: Pray for unity and protection against division within your church and community.

5. Practical Steps for Churches and Leaders

Church leaders play a crucial role in fostering unity and preventing spiritual divorce:

a. Teaching on Unity

Regular sermons and Bible studies on unity and reconciliation can shape the congregation’s mindset.

b. Conflict Resolution Training

Equip leaders and members with tools for resolving conflicts biblically (Matthew 18:15-17).

c. Creating Safe Spaces for Dialogue

Provide opportunities for open discussions where members can express concerns and work towards resolution.

d. Modeling Unity

Leaders must model humility, forgiveness, and unity in their actions and relationships.

6. The Power of a Unified Church

A unified church is a powerful force for good. Acts 2:42-47 describes the early church’s unity and its impact on the community. When believers live in harmony, sharing resources and caring for one another, the world takes notice.

Unity glorifies God and advances His Kingdom. It allows the church to focus on its mission and reflect the love of Christ to a divided world.

Conclusion: A Call to Healing and Reconciliation

Spiritual divorce among believers is a serious issue, but it is not insurmountable. By embracing humility, forgiveness, and a Kingdom-focused mindset, the church can heal divisions and live out its calling as the body of Christ.

Let us commit to being peacemakers and ambassadors of reconciliation (2 Corinthians 5:18-20), reflecting the unity and love that Christ prayed for in His followers. Through God’s grace, we can heal the brokenness and walk together on the path of joyful repentance and service.

Every Good and Perfect Gift: Living in the Light of God’s Truth

Every Good and Perfect Gift: Living in the Light of God’s Truth

“Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.”James 1:17

This verse from James is a cornerstone of our faith, reminding us of God’s unchanging nature and His abundant provision. In a world marked by sin and uncertainty, the assurance of God’s steadfast love and His perfect gifts offers both hope and strength. Let’s explore how this truth transforms our understanding of God’s light, grace, and our identity as new creations in Christ.

God’s Light Sustains Us

The Bible often compares God’s truth and guidance to light. Just as physical light is essential for life on Earth, God’s spiritual light is vital for navigating the moral and spiritual darkness of this world.

Without light, we stumble in the shadows, unable to discern the right path. Similarly, without God’s truth, we are left vulnerable to confusion, sin, and separation from Him. Yet, God did not abandon us in our fallen state. He sent Jesus, the Light of the World, to guide us.

“When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, ‘I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.'”John 8:12

Key Lesson:
Recognize the necessity of God’s light in your life. Regularly seek His guidance through prayer, Scripture, and the Holy Spirit. This light not only sustains us but also points us toward His glory, even amid life’s darkest moments.

The Perfect Gift: Jesus Christ

God’s love is so vast that He gave His ultimate gift to humanity: Jesus Christ. Through Him, we receive freedom, forgiveness, and eternal hope. Despite the darkness of sin and the opposition of Satan, the light of Jesus is powerful enough to overcome all shadows.

“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God.”Ephesians 2:8

In Jesus, we find more than salvation—we find restoration and purpose. His light transforms our lives, allowing us to live in freedom and share His truth with others.

Key Lesson:
Embrace the redemptive work of Jesus. Share His light with others through acts of love, mercy, and truth. Let your life be a testimony of the freedom found in Him.

Our Identity as Sons and Daughters

Through Jesus, we are adopted into God’s family, becoming His sons and daughters. This divine adoption changes everything. No longer are we defined by our past, failures, or worldly status; we are defined by our relationship with God.

“The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, ‘Abba, Father.'”Romans 8:15

This new identity brings purpose, belonging, and the assurance of God’s love and promises.

Key Lesson:
Reflect on your identity in Christ. Reject any worldly definitions of your worth and live boldly as a beloved child of God, trusting in His grace and walking in freedom.

Becoming New Creations

When we accept Jesus, we are transformed into new creations. This transformation is not a mere improvement but a complete renewal made possible by the Holy Spirit.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!”2 Corinthians 5:17

The Holy Spirit, the uncreated and eternal God, dwells within us, empowering us to live in alignment with God’s purposes. This indwelling reflects the essence of the new covenant: a promise of grace, transformation, and intimate relationship with God.

Key Lesson:
Yield to the Holy Spirit’s work in your life. Seek His guidance daily and allow His presence to transform your thoughts, actions, and desires to reflect Christ.

God’s Unchanging Love

The foundation of the new covenant is God’s steadfast love. Unlike the shifting shadows of the world, His faithfulness remains constant.

“Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.”Hebrews 13:8

God will never change His mind about those He has redeemed. His love and commitment to His children are eternal, offering us a secure anchor in times of doubt or struggle.

Key Lesson:
Rest in the assurance of God’s unchanging love. Let this truth anchor you during trials, and boldly live out your faith with confidence in His steadfast care.

Living in Christlikeness

Through Jesus, God has made it possible for us to grow into His likeness in love, holiness, and righteousness. This transformation is not just about avoiding sin but about becoming more like Christ in every area of life.

“For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son.”Romans 8:29

Living out this truth requires daily surrender and intentionality. We must actively feed our new creation with God’s truth, rejecting the lies of the enemy that seek to distract and dishearten us.

Key Lesson:
Commit to becoming more like Jesus. Meditate on His Word, pray regularly, and cultivate a lifestyle that reflects His character. Trust in His power to transform you into His likeness.

Shining as the Light of the World

As followers of Christ, we are called to be the light of the world. This light is not our own but a reflection of Jesus in us.

“You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden.”Matthew 5:14

The enemy will try to convince us that we are still bound by our old nature. These lies aim to keep us from living out our full potential in Christ. However, we have been given authority over darkness through Jesus.

Key Lesson:
Believe in your identity as the light of the world. Stand firm in the authority Christ has given you, and boldly shine His light in your family, community, and beyond.

Exercising Spiritual Authority

God has equipped us with power and authority through Jesus Christ. This authority is not only for personal transformation but also for advancing His kingdom. We are called to cast down false doctrines, defeat demonic influences, and free those in spiritual bondage.

“I have given you authority to trample on snakes and scorpions and to overcome all the power of the enemy; nothing will harm you.”Luke 10:19

Key Lesson:
Exercise your spiritual authority through prayer and the declaration of God’s Word. Trust in the power of Christ within you to overcome spiritual strongholds and bring His truth into every area of life.

Conclusion: The Perfect Gift of Jesus

God’s perfect gift, Jesus Christ, is the ultimate expression of His love and grace. Through Him, we are transformed, empowered, and called to shine His light in a dark world. By embracing our identity as new creations and walking in His truth, we fulfill God’s purposes and bring His kingdom to earth.

Let us live boldly in the light of God’s truth, trusting in His unchanging love and exercising the authority He has given us. As we do, we will see His glory revealed in our lives and the lives of those around us. Hallelujah!

 

Already Loved: A Story of Love, Grace, and Salvation

Ephesians 2:8-9 says, “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.”  Already Loved by Dean Mark Hilario Enoza captures the essence of this Bible verse as it takes us through the journey of God’s unconditional love exemplified through Christ’s sacrifice on the cross and the gift of salvation, He freely offers to everyone who is ready to receive it.

From the first line of the song to the last, Dean sonorously expresses the futility of works and human efforts in receiving salvation and being worthy to be called, chosen and sanctified by God. In other words, giving credence to God’s Word, which emphasizes that all our righteousness is like filthy rags before God (Isaiah 64:6). What that means is that we are incapable of reaching God’s standard of holiness by being morally upright. Instead, God, in His mercy, freely offers us salvation.

Already Loved sheds light on the greatest message of the Bible: love. The chorus says:

“You already love,

yes, You already love me,                      

not because of my works

On the cross, You have shown me,

I’m already loved.”

This summarizes Christ’s sacrificial love according to Romans 5:8, which says, “But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Sin is an act of disobedience, and its punishment is death.

Romans 6:23: “For the wages of sin is death.”Everyone who sins is on their way to eternal condemnation. However, God made provision for us to escape that judgment by sending Jesus 2000 years ago to die for our sins. The beautiful thing about His death is that He did not just sacrifice Himself for the people present at that time. Instead, He died so that sinners who would be born today, tomorrow, and thousands of years to come would have access to His precious gift of salvation.

The second verse of Already Loved reveals the power of Jesus’ blood for sanctification. It says:

“All the stains I tried to hide,

in Your light, they’re magnified

Even with my darkest faults,

You’ve washed me white as snow

How could I stay the same?

On my knees, I will proclaim.”

This reminds us of Isaiah 1:18, which says, “Come now, and let us reason together,” says the Lord, “Though your sins are like scarlet, They shall be as white as snow; Though they are red like crimson, They shall be as wool.”Jesus’ blood searches our hearts, goes to the darkest parts, washes them, and makes them as white as snow. In other words, the magnitude of your sin or how filthy you think you are does not matter. The blood of Jesus can transform your life with one encounter, and you will be shocked at how you have changed.

2 Corinthians 5:17 says, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.” So how can you stay the same? You can never remain the same.

So, what should be our response to this display of unconditional love by Jesus Christ to us? Dean answered this in the last line of the second verse. “On my knees, I will proclaim.” Those who truly understand the extent of God’s love respond with reverence and profound gratitude. What else shall we offer Christ except for our absolute worship and sincere gratitude?

Dean presenting his song, ‘Already Loved,’ to his peers and mentors in the Songwriting Stream of Awaken Generation, a Christian worship school in Singapore.

Another beautiful revelation in this song is that Jesus Christ’s salvation work for us is already done just as He uttered the words “It is finished” before taking His last breath (John 19:30). So, we are meant to embrace the benefits of His sacrifice, including grace and salvation.

Dean Mark Hilario Enoza’s life and salvation experience vividly illustrate that Jesus came not for the righteous, but for sinners, including the most broken.

At 20, under immense pressure as a university scholar in an “achievement/performance culture”, Dean reached a point of profound despair. Overwhelmed by the weight of his circumstances, he felt his life had lost all meaning and was consumed by anger towards God and hopelessness. In this dark moment, he attempted to end his life. Yet, that night, in a transformative vision, Jesus appeared to him. Dean recalls, “An extremely bright light stripped me. I felt so dirty, sinful, and shameful in front of His holiness. I knelt and covered my face, unworthy to look at His face and even at His feet.”

Dean confessed that Jesus cleansed him with light that’s made of unconditional love, forgiveness, and acceptance. Jesus then assured him of His love and filled his heart with joy and hope. This supernatural experience changed the trajectory of Dean’s life and kick-started a new passion and desire to please God using his talents, songwriting, and painting.

(left to right: Dean, jamming with his friends, Ray and Stephen)

Dean’s musical journey began at 7 when he first learned how to play the keyboard. At 11, he penned his first jingle; by 15, he was composing full songs for school competitions. After his encounter with Jesus, fast forward to 2021, and he wrote his first Gospel track, “It is You.” The song talks about how Jesus is the answer to the many questions our hearts ask in desperation and the solution to the puzzles of life. Dean said he wrote the song while establishing a connection with God and recognizing His voice.

According to Dean, “After crafting this “It is You”, my mission became clear: to weave the Gospel, God’s love, and human emotion into my songs.” Not long after “It is You” was released, “Already Loved” was born in 2024, as a testament to Dean’s encounter with Christ. He further states, “In my freshest revelation, I’ve discovered how to collaborate with God. Also, I’ve been immersed in God’s love, and I want to tell the world about it through my songs and art.”

Everything about Already Love tells a beautiful story, including the song’s cover art titled “Thank You for Saving Me” by Dean Mark Enoza. The art was inspired by Dean’s vision. The art depicts Jesus’ face beaming light and Dean, leaning in a posture of submission, humility, awe, and worship. “I was overwhelmed by the light’s holiness and authority, so my instant reaction was to fall down on the floor, kneel, and cover my face… I felt so sinful and unworthy to be in His presence.” The light shining from Jesus’ face flows down to Dean like a stream of water, washing away dirt and stains and restoring cleanliness while he drowns in the holy light made up of love.

According to Dean, “Through this painting, I wanted to amplify His message and express my immense gratitude. His message is that He loves us … He asked me to tell everyone how much He loves us. He loves us deeply. I also want to express my gratitude for Jesus saving my life from suicide.” Dean decided to use his painting as the album cover for Already Loved after his close friend Dionne, a professional graphic designer from Indonesia, noticed the meaningful connection between the painting and the song. Dionne then designed the layout for the cover.

This alignment of events felt like pieces of a puzzle falling into place, creating a cohesive picture that seemed to be guided by a higher plan. Dean was overwhelmed by how everything came together so seamlessly. In the end, all these elements, both music and art coalesced into a unified testimony and declaration of God’s love.

Thank You for Saving Me (The album art cover of “Already Loved”
(2022)
By Dean Mark Hilario Enoza

The song ends with an intimate invitation: “Find me, sitting at Your feet. In Your eyes, I’ll always be enough… ’cause I’m already loved.” This imagery of sitting at Jesus’ feet echoes the story of Mary and Martha in Luke 10:38-42, where Jesus commends Mary for choosing the “better part” by sitting and listening to Him. For the listener, this is an encouragement to prioritize their relationship with God, to draw near to Him, and to find peace in His presence.

This ending deeply impacts us by shifting our focus from external pressures and distractions to the simplicity of being in God’s presence. It’s a call to intimacy with God, where one can rest in the knowledge of being fully known and fully loved.

To sum it up, the affirmation “I’m already loved” transforms our identity and self-worth. This song serves as a powerful counter-narrative in a world that often ties value to performance, appearance, and success. It reminds us that our true worth is found in God’s unconditional love, a love demonstrated on the cross. While God’s love is unwavering, this truth also calls us to turn away from sin and embrace the life of holiness He desires for us. His love empowers us to seek transformation, and because of this, we cannot stay the same but must continually grow and align our lives with His will.

This song is for you if you need a reminder and assurance of God’s unconditional love for you. It’s a call to quit depending on your works for salvation but surrender your totality at the feet of Jesus to be touched by His light and washed by His precious blood.

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“Already Loved” was birthed by the collaborative efforts of three creatives: The songwriter, Dean Mark Hilario Enoza; the singer, Eric Haley; and the arranger, Shardei Bueno. In this short interview, they discuss the story behind creating “Already Loved” and how it impacted them personally.

Dean Mark Hilario Enoza

Dean Mark Hilario Enoza is a Filipino multimedia artist and songwriter based in Singapore. He is a global leader in Learning Design and a prophetic artist who paints acrylic on canvas. Dean actively participates in church worship gatherings, where he often engages in live prophetic painting. His musical journey began at a young age, and he has since become known for his heartfelt compositions that blend faith, love, and human emotion. Dean’s work often reflects his deep spiritual experiences and his desire to share God’s love through music.

Interview with Dean Mark Hilario Enoza (The songwriter):

1. In your process of songwriting, how did the song impact you personally?

Creating “Already Loved” was a deeply profound journey. It required a lot of time and hard work, but it was all driven by a desire to glorify God and express my love for others. It’s like discovering the most precious treasure—God’s boundless love—and I wanted to share this treasure with the world through this song.

It is both cathartic and fulfilling to create something that will continue to proclaim God’s love, and minister to listeners’ hearts, a proclamation that will outlive me. Working virtually with the arranger of this song, Shardei Bueno, a musician in the Philippines, and the singer, Eric Haley, a worship leader from the U.S., was made possible by the incredible advancements in technology. It feels as though this collaboration was orchestrated by God, and witnessing it unfold has been a joy.

This song represents the culmination of my life experiences, revelations, my encounter with Jesus, and the many inspirations God has given me, all encapsulated in a 3-minute and 33-second song.

2. What message do you hope listeners take away from this song about their own identity and relationship with God?

In December 2023, while I was planning what I wanted to do for 2024— paintings, worship songs, writing books, and taking songwriting lessons, I had a recurring audible message from God: “I created the universe.” This message came to me repeatedly, like at 3 AM. It didn’t make sense at first, but the message became clear later on: God already created the universe, and there is nothing I could ever add to it with all my artistic/musical creations. What He requires from me is my heart and a relationship with Him. As my song goes “I don’t need to create something great for God to love me. I’m already loved. God’s work is done, and it’s beautiful.”

Dean with his art piece: “𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐇𝐨𝐥𝐝𝐬 𝐔𝐬 𝐓𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐁𝐫𝐨𝐤𝐞𝐧 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝?” (Winner of Angelico Art Award Painting Competition 2022)
By Dean Mark Hilario Enoza

In a world rife with chaos, hate, and brokenness, I hope listeners will grasp the truth of God’s unconditional love. Many people go to great lengths—seeking fame, wealth, or power—to fill the void in their lives, but only God’s love can truly satisfy them. My hope is that this song will offer comfort and assurance, helping listeners understand that they are loved beyond measure by an all-powerful God.

When we are secure in God’s love, we no longer need to chase after fleeting, superficial things. We can avoid wasting our time, lives, and efforts on temporary pursuits and instead focus on what truly matters—being anchored in the eternal and unchanging love of God.

There is nothing more comforting than being loved by an all-powerful and ever-loving God. Understanding our identity as children of God transforms our perspective. We are no longer lost, wandering orphans; instead, our identity is rooted in our relationship with God. He is our Father, and we are His sons and daughters.

The devil may whisper lies, convincing us that we must achieve certain things or follow specific rules to be worthy of God’s love. He may try to make us feel too sinful or unworthy to approach our Heavenly Father. Yet, the truth is that God’s love is as tender and welcoming as that of a loving father with open arms, inviting us to embrace His unconditional love despite our shortcomings.

Human nature often leads us to forget the depth and constancy of God’s love, especially amid life’s distractions and challenges. I hope that this song becomes a daily reminder for listeners of the unfailing love of God—a love that remains constant, regardless of our circumstances. In the end, no matter how much we may struggle, the certainty of God’s love remains our greatest assurance and hope.

Eric Haley

Eric Haley is the Executive Pastor of Worship & Creative at Trademark Church in Fort Worth, Texas. Known for his passionate worship leading, Eric aims to inspire and lead people into a deeper relationship with Jesus through music and creative arts.

For Eric (Singer): 

1. How was your experience in interpreting and performing “Already Loved,” and how did it impact you personally? 

It is always such a joy to record vocals for a song when I really believe what I’m singing. Singing “Already Loved” came so natural to me because these lyrics felt like words I could have written myself.

2. What feelings or thoughts do you hope the song gives to listeners?

The thoughts and emotions voiced in this song are ones that every person can resonate with. So my hope would be that of Paul in Ephesians chapter 3, verses 18 & 19. “And may you have the power to understand, as all God’s people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep His love is. May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully. Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God.”

Shardei Bueno

Shardei Bueno is a talented music arranger and musician from the Philippines. With a knack for creating emotionally resonant arrangements, Shardei has collaborated with various well-renowned artists to bring their musical visions to life. Her work is characterized by its heartfelt and supportive nature.

For Shardei (Arranger): 

1. How did you approach the arrangement of “Already Loved” to enhance its message and emotional impact? 

Arranging this song was a rollercoaster. I can’t help but think about how easy it was to finish the first draft of ‘Already Loved’ then revise it to nine different trial and error versions until we got to the point of releasing it.

2. What was your personal experience working on this song, and how did it affect you?

I knew this song was pretty straightforward and easy to understand. From an emotional standpoint, I just want to support Dean’s view of this song, and I am very empathetic about the story behind why he wrote the song. I always believed in Dean’s songwriting; I am just here for him to put his visions to life.

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Author 

David Akeju is a Christian writer who believes in the transformational power of God’s Word. He has a degree in Mass Communication and works with various brands.

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“The Unfaithful Wife: A Call to Return to God’s Faithful Love”

Scripture: Hosea 2:19-20, Jeremiah 3:20, Ezekiel 16:32

 

Brothers and sisters, today we are diving into a profound and often painful metaphor that God uses throughout Scripture to describe His relationship with His people—Israel as the unfaithful wife. When we hear this term, it brings an immediate, raw sense of betrayal. Why would God use such a harsh image to describe His people? Because the depths of God’s love and His longing for us are so intense that only the language of broken love can capture His heartbreak.

 

Israel’s journey with God was like a marriage covenant, a holy commitment to be loyal and devoted. But over and over, Israel turned away, chasing after other gods and alliances, just as an unfaithful spouse turns away from their beloved. Today, we’ll explore what this metaphor reveals about our own hearts, our call to faithfulness, and above all, the unshakeable faithfulness of God.

 

  1. The Heart of Betrayal: Recognizing Spiritual Infidelity

 

In Hosea 2:19, God says, “I will betroth you to me forever; I will betroth you in righteousness and justice, in love and compassion.” God chose Israel as His beloved, calling them into an eternal covenant marked by righteousness, justice, love, and compassion. Yet, Israel’s unfaithfulness became a painful betrayal, as they repeatedly ran after idols, seeking satisfaction, security, and success apart from God.

 

Today, this infidelity isn’t limited to idols made of stone. When we prioritize careers, relationships, finances, or personal ambitions above our devotion to God, we are in danger of betraying our first love. Let us pause to reflect—are there areas in our lives where we have allowed something else to take the place of God?

 

  1. The Pain of God’s Heart: Feeling the Weight of Our Unfaithfulness

 

Imagine the heart of a betrayed spouse, left to grieve over the brokenness of love. This is a small glimpse of God’s heart for us. In Jeremiah 3:20, God declares, “Surely, as a wife treacherously departs from her husband, so you have dealt treacherously with Me, O house of Israel.” God is not indifferent to our wandering; He feels it deeply, personally.

 

When we stray, God doesn’t simply shake His head and walk away. Instead, His heart breaks. He feels the weight of our unfaithfulness and mourns the distance that our sin creates between us and Him. This is not the response of an indifferent judge—it is the reaction of a loving Father, of a faithful husband. This image reminds us that our choices matter deeply to God. Sin isn’t just breaking rules; it’s breaking God’s heart.

 

  1. The Faithfulness of God: A Love That Relentlessly Pursues

 

Despite Israel’s unfaithfulness, God does not abandon her. In Hosea, we see God telling the prophet to love and pursue his unfaithful wife, Gomer, as a symbol of God’s relentless pursuit of His people. Hosea 2:14-15 says, “Therefore, behold, I will allure her, bring her into the wilderness, and speak tenderly to her. There I will give her back her vineyards and make the Valley of Achor a door of hope.”

 

This passage reveals God’s nature—a God who doesn’t give up on His people, even in their darkest moments. Instead of casting them away, He lures them back with kindness and mercy, bringing them to a place of healing and restoration. Today, God is still calling each one of us, inviting us to return to His arms. His love is so steadfast that He continues to pursue us, even when we don’t deserve it.

 

  1. Our Call to Repentance and Restoration

 

The story of Israel is not just a historical lesson; it is a call to each of us today. God invites us to examine our hearts and honestly acknowledge any unfaithfulness, any areas where we have allowed other things to take precedence over our relationship with Him. The good news is that God doesn’t call us to shame but to restoration. In Hosea 3:1, God tells Hosea to go again and love Gomer, symbolizing how God forgives and restores us when we repent.

 

True repentance is not just feeling sorry—it is turning back to God, surrendering everything that has come between us and Him. When we return, God doesn’t scold us or remind us of our failures. He restores us, wipes away our sins, and makes us whole.

 

  1. The Beauty of Redemption in Christ

 

Ultimately, the metaphor of the unfaithful wife points us to the cross, where Jesus, the perfect Bridegroom, lays down His life for His unfaithful bride—the Church. Ephesians 5:25-27 says, “Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word.” Jesus willingly paid the price for our unfaithfulness so that we could be restored to a pure and holy relationship with God.

 

This is the beauty of God’s love for us. Though we have strayed and been unfaithful, He has made a way for us to be reconciled through the blood of Christ. The cross is the ultimate declaration that God’s love never fails. No matter how far we’ve wandered, Jesus’ sacrifice is enough to bring us back.

 

Conclusion

 

Brothers and sisters, let us remember that God’s call to faithfulness is not a demand but an invitation. He longs for us to love Him wholeheartedly, as a spouse loves in a devoted marriage. His love is steadfast, and His arms are always open, ready to restore us.

 

Today, if you feel the weight of unfaithfulness in your life, know that you are not beyond God’s reach. Like Hosea pursuing Gomer, God pursues you with love and forgiveness. His invitation is simple but profound: “Return to Me, and I will heal your faithlessness.”

 

As we close, let us take a moment to examine our hearts, to turn back to the God who loves us with an everlasting love. May we recommit ourselves to faithfulness, knowing that our God is faithful beyond measure, waiting to restore, redeem, and embrace us once again.

 

Prayer

 

Heavenly Father, we come before You humbled and grateful for Your unfailing love. Forgive us for the ways we have been unfaithful, for allowing things in our lives to take precedence over You. We ask for Your mercy, Lord, and for Your strength to turn back to You fully. Remind us daily of Your love and keep us close to Your heart. We thank You, Lord, for Your relentless pursuit and for the cross, where we find ultimate redemption. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.

 

Praising God Wholeheartedly: A Journey of Faith and Miraculous Power

Psalm 9:1 says, “I will praise You, oh Lord, with my whole heart; I will tell of all Your marvelous works.” This verse is a powerful reminder of the importance of praising God with every fiber of our being and bearing witness to His miraculous deeds in our lives. As believers, we often find ourselves in awe of God’s works, longing to experience His mighty power firsthand. This desire echoes the story of Thomas, who doubted until he saw proof. Similarly, we may seek that undeniable sign or miracle, a moment that confirms God’s presence and power in our lives. Yet, Jesus reminds us in Luke 19:40 that if we do not praise Him, even the stones will cry out. How much more, then, should we, as living witnesses of His grace, raise our voices in praise?

 

Seeking and Experiencing God’s Miracles

 

Just as Thomas sought proof, many of us have moments where we desire a sign from God. We want to test His power, to witness something so grand that it leaves no room for doubt. And God, in His infinite mercy, often reveals Himself in ways that are both personal and profound. For some, it might be a miraculous healing, a financial breakthrough, or a situation where the odds were against them, but God stepped in. These moments serve as powerful reminders of His sovereignty.

 

The cross stands as the ultimate testimony of God’s love and power, but His works didn’t stop there. Jesus’ sacrifice continues to affect our lives in tangible ways every day. The same power that raised Him from the dead is at work within us, shaping our experiences and guiding us through life’s challenges.

 

Have you ever had a moment where you could clearly see God’s hand at work? Whether big or small, these moments are His marvelous works, and we should not keep silent about them. Instead, like the Psalmist, we should declare them to the world, letting others know of the great things He has done.

 

The Seven Spirits of God in Action

 

When we face difficult times and feel the need to witness God’s power, He faithfully responds. The Bible speaks of the Seven Spirits of God (Isaiah 11:2-3), and these Spirits have the power to guide, heal, and strengthen us in profound ways. Each one represents a specific aspect of God’s character and work:

 

The Spirit of Wisdom: Guiding us in making sound decisions aligned with God’s will.

The Spirit of Knowledge: Granting us insight and understanding beyond our natural abilities.

The Spirit of Understanding: Helping us to comprehend the deeper truths of God’s Word.

The Spirit of Counsel: Offering guidance and direction when we feel lost or uncertain.

The Spirit of the Fear of the Lord: Reminding us of the reverence and awe due to our holy God.

The Spirit of Power: Enabling us to overcome challenges and walk in the authority of Christ.

The Spirit of the Lord: His very presence, leading and comforting us.

In my own life, I have experienced the power of these Spirits in various ways. As a believer, I have seen God’s hand move in miraculous ways, from healing and wisdom to knowledge and understanding. One of the most significant testimonies in my life occurred when I was just 11 days old. My father was in an accident, and my mother had to leave me alone at home. I survived for 48 hours without milk, and even though I was just an infant, God’s hand was upon me. This event is just one of many instances where God has shown His love and power in my life, long before I could even comprehend it.

 

Praise as a Path to Transformation

 

One of the key themes in this devotional is the transformative power of wholehearted praise. Praising God from the depths of our hearts, with faith and expectation, brings about real change in our lives. Half-hearted praise, on the other hand, lacks the power to unlock the blessings that God has in store for us.

 

Reflecting on the importance of sincere praise, it becomes clear that when we worship God with our whole hearts, we open the door to His presence and power. It is in these moments of genuine worship that we experience true transformation. In your life, has there been a time when you offered God praise despite difficult circumstances? Perhaps you were in a season of struggle, yet you chose to lift your voice in worship. These are the moments where God often moves in the most powerful ways.

 

The Bible tells us that faith can move mountains (Matthew 17:20), and when we praise God with faith, believing in His power and promises, we position ourselves to receive His blessings. This type of praise is not about empty words or rituals but about trusting God completely, even when circumstances seem bleak.

 

Faith and Praise in Times of Trial

 

Another important lesson from this devotional is the call to praise God during trials. When we face challenges, it can be easy to fall into worry or fear. Yet, the Bible teaches us that praise precedes victory. One of the most striking examples of this is the story of Joshua and the walls of Jericho (Joshua 6). The Israelites were instructed to march around the city, praising God, before they saw any evidence of the walls falling. It was their faith-filled praise that triggered the breakthrough.

 

As believers, we are called to do the same. When we face obstacles in life, we should march around our personal “Jerichos” with shouts of praise, believing that God will bring down the walls. This act of faith not only glorifies God but also strengthens us, reminding us of the authority and inheritance we have in Christ. When we praise God in the midst of trials, we are declaring that we trust Him to deliver us, just as He has done in the past.

 

The Power of Praise Over Worry

 

Finally, this devotional highlights the powerful truth that praise can drive out worry and fear. When we choose to focus on God’s power rather than our problems, we experience the freedom that Christ has already secured for us. Worry and fear have no place in the life of a believer, for we are more than conquerors through Christ (Romans 8:37).

 

Choosing praise over worry is not always easy, but it is a choice that leads to liberation. When we fix our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Finisher of our faith (Hebrews 12:2), we can walk in the confidence that He is in control. Our praise becomes a weapon that pushes back the darkness and invites the Holy Spirit to move in our lives.

 

Conclusion: A Call to Wholehearted Praise

 

In conclusion, this devotional is a powerful reminder of the importance of praising God with our whole hearts. Whether we are facing trials, seeking God’s miraculous power, or simply reflecting on His goodness, praise is the key to unlocking His presence and power in our lives. As we offer up genuine, faith-filled praise, we can trust that God will move on our behalf, just as He has done countless times before.

 

Let us be encouraged to praise God with every part of who we are, trusting in His ability to deliver, heal, and transform. As we lift our voices in worship, let us remember the words of Psalm 9:1: “I will praise You, oh Lord, with my whole heart; I will tell of all Your marvelous works.” May our lives be a testimony to His grace and power, and may we never cease to declare His marvelous works to the world.